I was married for 29 years and was slowly but surely guided into the person I became. That person , my wife who I thought would look out for me made me bulimic depressed and trapped. I had two lovely girls that I thought I couldn’t leave and created many personas to face the the world so no one would know. She took me away from my family she controlled me financially and made me feel worthless. I eventually found the courage to stand up and finish it, but I still have guilt for upsetting her plans which she had for the rest of our lives. I miss my youngest daughter as she has dis owned me but I loved and guided her into her early 20’s and I can do no more so I’m at peace with that. I eventually found happiness outside that relationship and wish I’d have had the courage years earlier. It’s not as scary as you might think out there , so don’t be afraid get out while you can. This man started again at 55 years old and I’m proud of that x